Good afternoon from a rainy Stockton on Tees
I have an ethical dilemma for which I feel in need of your wisdom and advice.
Sometimes after laborious and detailed research, I discover something elusive about an ancestor - it could be their spouse, parentage, birth, death, all manner of things, and then I see that other researchers looking into the same person have taken another route and come up with a different and wrong answer. Often I can see they have simply copied from someone else, or they have taken the easy option - it happened in the same county, or it's the only thing that came up in the first search, and it is something I know for certain is wrong, something I have been able to rule out during my own research. Maybe I have the certificate in my hand at that point, so I know for sure.
On Ancestry in particular the hints nearly always show at least one another researcher who you know has made a mistake.
Generally I have not done anything about that, just noticed it, possibly a wee bit smugly if I am honest, and then ignored it. "That's really not my problem".
However, having just cracked someone's parentage after 33 years of research, and knowing that many other people have the wrong parents on their tree, I suddenly feel as though perhaps I should say something. I could send people messages to alert them to the new information but I don't know if it is the right thing to do.
I think some genealogists would be angry, or at least cross, would challenge the facts, would doubt me, would feel it a personal slight that someone should suggest they had made a mistake. It's a bit like criticising the way someone drives I imagine.
On the other hand they are family tree enthusiasts who have cared enough to do the research and load up their tree, so wouldn't they care enough to want it to be a true reflection of their roots?
What would you do? Have you tried it? What happened?
I would appreciate your thoughts.
Thank you in advance for your engagement