Rhoda May Old is my maternal Grandmother.
The information in this thread is to the best of my knowledge all true.
Charles Chatfield was her first Husband. Keith Norman Fitch was her second.
There are two records of her death, one as a Chatfield and one as a Fitch. Why this is the case I haven't been able to get to the bottom of. I also haven't been able to confirm with 100% certainity who her parents were. As far as I can tell Ann/Nancy and Charles were both married more than once.
I give up searching I'm going to buy her birth certificate and be done with it.
Ps - I have been in contact with Dorothy and Donald Coders children in the USA, they haven't been much help.