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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #144 on: Monday 01 February 16 13:40 GMT (UK) »
That's a very good point too 3SD! 

But now with a lot of younger kids, adolescents, teenagers etc., computer savvy, getting themselves onto Facebook and Instagram, they are subject to a lot of quite personal influences, and trying to "keep up with the play", are making themselves very vulnerable to possible predator grooming!

Without some sort of parental monitoring and control over the Internet sites they visit and participate in, chances are they may travel the wrong road when making new virtual "friends".

I guess it's even harder now that children in schools having to have their own "tablets" for school makes it even harder to monitor!  Even if a parent manages to block some inappropriate sites, some kids are so computer savvy, they'll just find a way to get around it, or find a new avenue to be "included" with their current online peers!

I didn't have a clue why my parents didn't really approve of a couple of my primary school friends (they were twin sisters) when I was a child!  I was allowed to invite them to our place to play, but I wasn't allowed to go to their house. I wasn't given an explanation why at the time, but accepted it,  but I did notice later, in the summer, when swimming, that these two girls had bruises and welts on their arms and legs and some other marks which I now realise must have been cigarette burns!

I told my Mum, and then she told me that their Dad was not a nice kind man like my Dad, and that he would drink too much beer all day, didn't go to work, and then he would get very angry and hurt his children and their mother, and that was why I wasn't allowed to go to their house, because he might be there and may hurt me too, and it was safer if I didn't go there.  (Apparently their mum would get on the turps as well).  Poor kids!

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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #145 on: Monday 01 February 16 14:04 GMT (UK) »


Pleased I'm not bringing up children anymore. LOL!!


Me too, it's a minefield for parents today.  ::) ;D

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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #146 on: Monday 01 February 16 14:18 GMT (UK) »
That's a very good point too 3SD! 

But now with a lot of younger kids, adolescents, teenagers etc., computer savvy, getting themselves onto Facebook and Instagram, they are subject to a lot of quite personal influences, and trying to "keep up with the play", are making themselves very vulnerable to possible predator grooming!

Without some sort of parental monitoring and control over the Internet sites they visit and participate in, chances are they may travel the wrong road when making new virtual "friends".

I guess it's even harder now that children in schools having to have their own "tablets" for school makes it even harder to monitor!  Even if a parent manages to block some inappropriate sites, some kids are so computer savvy, they'll just find a way to get around it, or find a new avenue to be "included" with their current online peers!


Yes good parents monitor lazy parents block.

As you say many children will be able to by pass blocking with little difficulty. Many will resent the block and look at it as a challenge to be overcome.

It is better and relatively easy to monitor what sites your child has been using and incidentally whether they have deleted their “history”, if the history has been deleted that should ring alarm bells for parents and call for closer supervision of the children’s internet use.

Parents should never forget they are their children's parents not their children's friends.

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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #147 on: Monday 01 February 16 14:49 GMT (UK) »
Well said both of you, 3SD and Guy!  I even delete my own history every night, in case I croak,  and my kids discover what I've been up to!!  ;D ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #148 on: Monday 01 February 16 15:03 GMT (UK) »
Well said both of you, 3SD and Guy!  I even delete my own history every night, in case I croak,  and my kids discover what I've been up to!!  ;D ;D ;D ;D



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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #149 on: Monday 01 February 16 19:19 GMT (UK) »
Guy. JayBelnz, And 3SD,
I got up this morning (my time), and reading this last part of the thread, I couldn't agree more. Our three grew up just at the start of boom in computers, and online issues for teenagers, and we experienced a lot of what you have touched on, especially with our daughter.
And Guy, reading your posts, it was almost as if I'd written them myself.  :)
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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #150 on: Tuesday 02 February 16 12:52 GMT (UK) »
Children like all young animals learn by example, if the parents are secretive the children become secretive as a result they will get hurt in the long run.
Up to a point everyone, not just children, learns by example, but many don't accept everything they are 'told', and only learn by experience and making painful mistakes (as you pointed out Guy) and sometimes not even then ....

The obvious example in the context of Family History is the number of girls who get 'up the spout' despite being instructed how to avoid it ?
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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #151 on: Tuesday 02 February 16 13:00 GMT (UK) »
Children like all young animals learn by example, if the parents are secretive the children become secretive as a result they will get hurt in the long run.
Up to a point everyone, not just children, learns by example, but many don't accept everything they are 'told', and only learn by experience and making painful mistakes (as you pointed out Guy) and sometimes not even then ....

The obvious example in the context of Family History is the number of girls who get 'up the spout' despite being instructed how to avoid it ?

I think that is a rather derogatory remark Andrew.   
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Re: Barriers To Genealogy In The Future
« Reply #152 on: Tuesday 02 February 16 13:08 GMT (UK) »
... but many don't accept everything they are 'told', and only learn by experience and making painful mistakes (as you pointed out Guy) and sometimes not even then ....


I don't know what you mean Andrew I always "accept what I am told", it's just that things such as fruit pies straight out of the oven, roasted chestnuts, pans on the hob, are uncharacteristically hot when I pick them up.
They also seem to be hot the second & third time I attempt it as well, very strange.

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PS I still don't understand why the filling of an apple pie is hot when it comes out of the oven but when my mum made artic rolls the filling (ice cream) was cold when it came out of the oven, it must be magic
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