Ancestry - Public Tree Members being trawled by Private Tree Members

[Finley 1]

OK  - I get it - I am a miserable - short tempered - quick to jump - lack all understanding ... Old lady - and that's me being polite...

I didn't mean to cause such a 'Ruck' 


 

xin

[pinefamily]

Xin,
You are not any of the above (in my experience anyway). Personally I would have reacted the same probably. It's the danger of the written word. So many interpretations, so few bullets (just joking  ).

[msr]

OK  - I get it - I am a miserable - short tempered - quick to jump - lack all understanding ... Old lady - and that's me being polite...

I didn't mean to cause such a 'Ruck' 


 

xin

You could be describing me there Xin - on a good day!     

[jaybelnz]

Not at all xin!  I don't think you're any of those things, and sure nobody else does either!  Nor do I  see any indication of you causing a ruck, replies have been just an interesting few possible explanations of how we can all get hold of the wrong end of the stick sometimes! 

Please don't beat yourself up about it - nothing to beat yourself up about -  of course you're none of those things that you call yourself, except polite!! 

Take Care
Jeanne 

[Finley 1]

Thank you

I suppose its like my OH saying he is 'deaf without his glasses on'


  need to see the emotion/ feeling behind the words..



xin

[weste]

Stop bashing yourself again Xin.

[jaybelnz]

How about a global song for Xin - ready??

GO.  - "For she's a jolly good fellow 
           For she's a jolly good fellow
           For she's a jolly good fellow
           And so say all of us!!

Hip hip Hooray  💐
Hip hip Hooray   🌺🌺
HIP HIP HOOOOORAYYYYYY! 🌹🌹🌹

May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And may the rain fall softly on your fields!

[anne_p]

My tree on Ancestry is private as it contains hundreds of photographs and documents.

Here is a suggestion as it's what I do

Make your documented tree private
Export a gedcom from it and upload as public.
This way, all the info is retained but the photos and documents are not.
Update both trees if you can or export a fresh gedcom every now and again and upload it fresh
Wait for it to be found on a search and delete it's predecessor

[Finley 1]

Bless you all xxx

 I will try to behave and not feel so ... 'mardy' 

thank you


xin