I am at the moment feeling a little angry - not confused -
I am researching the following:
Mary Patrick ( oh sssh

) who married
Robert Lawrence or Laurence in: 1859 Mkt Harborough.
I have that his Parents are Joseph (from Northampton) and Mary (from Bowden Magna)
Mary Patrick and Robert Lawrence have one son Joseph Henry born 1860 Lubenham.
Right

So follow them through the census -
1861 They are in West Langton and all details tally - age- names - pob etc... RG 9 2251
1871 They are in Hobbs Yard Mkt Hbr and again all details tally. RG10 3225
1881Mary now down as a Widow............. unless my eyes are deceiving me!!!
W does stand for widow doesn't it... or is it an 'M' otherwise details are as hoped. RG11/3119
she even has a nephew with her to prove its the correct Mary.
1891
OH MY RG 12/2491 and guess what Robert is back !!!!!!!!!!!!

mind gone -- totally ----

then again they are in the 1901 still alive
but both gone by 1911...
trouble is I already buried Robert in 1872 !!! as per attchd...
xin