Ok, ok. All points very seriously noted. You do make me laugh Tara,thanks for the advice.
Start from the beginning, and I'll follow any instructions/advice to the tee.
My father James Finnian Oneill. Born 1938. Brother John ( eldest child) brother joe ( youngest child) sisters Catherine and Anne. There was another child, female, who I believe died when my father was aged between 8-12
My grandfather John Oneill married Josephine Deane. Roman Catholics
My grandfathers birthday was 2nd January ( same date as my brother) although I do not have a definite year.
My grandfather died and was buried in Tyrellspass. My grandmother died in London, but I believe was buried at Tyrellspass.
My fathers home was Tyrellspass, Co Westmeath.
That's all I have. TY