Many thanks for the quick reply. I was aware of some of the info, not all, we didn't know that George Reavley married so quickly. I knew about her cause of death which I guess was due to childbirth. I've studied the 1841 census with Reavley family living with William and Allan many times, we concluded that William and Allan were already there and the Reavley family moved in with them. Am I correct in thinking that Allan is the illegitimate son of Helen?
Great that you saw the Miller wedding photo. The bride and groom are my grandparents, Robert and Audrey Miller (nee Smith.) To the left of Robert is Hunter Miller (1875) born Houghton-le-Spring, my ggrandfather. His father was Thomas Miller (1844 - 1923) and then we were stuck with 2 possible fathers, both called William Miller (1811) born in Edinburgh. There far too many connections to our family for us to rule out the one on the 1841 census and after much discussion concluded that he was our man....