I'm going to close this thread now.
There have been several threads on this topic before - and no doubt will be again in the future

Many of the contributors have also expressed similar thoughts and vented their frustrations before. There is never going to be a way where everyone will agree. It is what makes us human.
While it may be a particularly dreich evening in my neck of the woods, may I encourage you all to enjoy the spring weather, your hobby of family history/genealogy - and not get too hung up on what opinions others might express.
Nell