Hiraethu, thank you so much! Very kind of you! Certainly looks like Meek, and the Ancestry transcription reads the same.
I have found a marriage of James Soutar and a May Mitchell in 1825, which is likely them. May, Mary, Meek? Mary and May, those are interchangeable, but the Meek angle is interesting.
And the BIG BONUS....I have just found who HAS to be James in the 1861 census. He is the right age, and he's a shoemaker which is right....and where he's living? In Dundee, in Tindal's Wynd, same street as his widowed daughter. Bingo :-)
Cheers,
China