William HOLFORD/ALLFORD b1790 of Southampton/Alverstoke/ Portsea first wife?

[nika]

Dear Rootschatters,
I first posted about William Holford in 2008. (Sorry if I should have continued on the same posting and I don't know how to link this message to the the old posting.  ) 

Moderator comment: this one I think
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=322851.0

William HOLFORD b 1790 married Ann FRYER nee PHILLPOT in 1828 in Portsea St Mary (Thank you littlenell you were superb in helping me out . At the time he was a widower and I've been trying to trace his birth and first marriage ever since.

I've finally found a William ALLFORD baptised 5/6/1790 in St Mary Southampton, the son of William ALLFORD and Anne Mathew (previosly GRANT nee REED) which I think is him. Now I'm trying to find his marriage to his first wife. Options so far are:
Elizabeth DEAN - marriage 18/8/1813 Alverstoke
Sarah COOK marriage 9/12/1820 Portsea St Mary
Martha REED marriage 27/10/1824 Portsea St Mary

Can anyone tell me whether Elizabeth, Sarah or Martha died before 1828?
Many thanks for your help and apologies for the length of the posting.
Nika