Hello Shareennorfolk - I've just seen your kind offer. Is this your first post? I think you need to make three posts before I can send you a personal message so that you can send me a picture.
The grave details are; St Nicholas, Section [I (alphabetical) 17] Number 339, a flat headstone with James Darch at the top and the names of some of his children, one of which is my gt gt grandmother, Mary Martha. I believe it was getting a bit illegible in 2007 so I don't expect too much, but I would really love to have an image, as its the only relative's grave I've ever found. Many, many thanks, Billiegirl