The problem to solve is Henry the Beer House Keeper the same as Henry the Butler, Henrietta S b London/Pimlico not Ireland on 3 census returns, her death could be the one in West Ham March qtr 1898 4a 137 aged 58?
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PS if it helps at all, the witnesses at the 1865 marriage were a Henry Burnham and what looks like Jane Thomasine Burnham, William James occ Tailor both bride/groom resident Charlotte Street