I have only ever seen wedding invitations sent or arrive in the post. The only telegrams involved were the congratulatory ones sent by those who couldn't make it. Usually read out by the best man.
Oh, I remember it. I was married in August of 1961, but instead we ran out of time (my wife was 4 months pregnant at the time) so I just wrote letters to everyone.
In 1966 the cost of a trunk call (i.e long distance) was 1 shilling to 4 shilling per three minutes, depending on the distance.
Heavens above, I never realized they were that much! That's why our phone bill was a lot.
In those days there were 12 pence to the shilling and 20 shillings to the pound.
Giving 240 pence to the pound rather than today's 100 (new) pence to the pound.
(In case your daughter has not been taught about pounds, shillings and pence)
She is fully aware, she was born in December of 1961.
A typical weekly wage before tax was £10 in the early to mid 1960s
I used to earn £21 a week before tax in the 1960s.
Overall, many thanks to you all!
Steven.