Can anyone see Thomas Coldham in Rotherham in 1891, 1901 or 1911?
His daughters Mary E and Annie M appear to marry in 1881 and 1886.
His father-in-law William Parlett does not die until 1897 in Rotherham (unless a different William)
And there should be a son Edgar E, but at a quick look there is no further mention of him.