as far as i am aware mam and dad seperated for approx 2 years , during which time mam had a relationship with a canadian soldier, and after he was sent home to canada. ( she never saw or heard from him again) . dad was a hard lined victorian. as far as i know they never tried for any more children, and after mam was operated on she had to have her womb removed. it was forbiden ever to mentioned again , as i was new born dad saw me as a replacement for mams lost baby, my childhood was loving off mam but harsh off dad , but thats all in the past now.