Hi Marcia
You also asked about Edmund John LUDLOW, Sarah's husband. Following on from the info given in the obit posted by Essie:
FreeBMD has this birth (Clifton is part of the City of Bristol now)
Dec qr 1849
Edmund John LUDLOW, registered Clifton Vol 11 p293
1851 at 4 Seymour? Place, Bristol
Edmond Ludlow 32, b Bristol, clerk, ale and porter brewery and xxx(illegible) malthouse
Mary Ludlow 34, b Englishcombe, Somerset
Mary Ludlow 8
Eliza Ludlow 6
Edmund John Ludlow 1
Emily Jane Ludlow 1 Mo
Ann Ancel 14, servant
1861 at Lower Easton, Bristol (seems his father has remarried - and taken a few years off his age! FreeBMD has a death registered in Clifton for a Mary LUDLOW and a marriage for Edmund LUDLOW to Grace Mendham, reg Bath 1859)
Edmund Ludlow 35, wine merchant
Grace Ludlow 25
Mary Ludlow 16
Eliza Ludlow 14
Edmund Ludlow 10
James Ludlow 8
Henry Ludlow 6/12
Emily Woolley 18, servant
John Ludlow 6, son
John Gay LUDLOW is also listed in the 1871 census still with Edmund and Grace. He marries Emma Jane HILL in 1875 in Bedminster, Somerset and comes to NSW in 1885 with his wife and 5 children. There is more information about him if you would like it. Did the brothers keep in touch?
The name "Gay" is from his (and Edmund's) mother's maiden name. Here is the marriage:
4 February, 1841 at Bristol
Edmund LUDLOW, 22, his father: John LUDLOW
Mary GAY, 22, her father: George GAY
Judith