Hi again is this the 1861 you have:-
Thomas Ralph 1781 b Low Heyford, Oxfordshire
Catherine 1791 b Tipton
Emma 1836 Granddaughter b Tipton
Ann Wright 1860 b Tipton
Elizabeth Ralph 1846 Granddaughter b Tipton
Thomas Wright 1836 Married/Grandson?
Census ref RG09/2044/47/39
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PS Thomas Wright 36 looks to be married to Emma aged 34 with the Ann 11 plus other siblings in 1871 In Boats, Gainsborough, Birmingham RG10/3089/27/47
So obvious question, which son/daughter of Thomas Ralph b c 1781 are your ancestors?