So... no headstone... =(
BUT!!!!! I received the marriage entry from Liverpool for James marriage to Margaret White... both fathers names are John and both fathers were fishermen... John Mathews was deceased as of the date of marriage (May 21, 1909)
James was listed as a 43 year old widower and licensed victualler with an address of 350 Scotland Rd, Liverpool and Margaret was a 35 year old spinster barmaid with an address of 10 Upper Parliament st, Toxteth Park... I have tried to look up the Scotland rd address with no luck and the building no longer stands =( I am considering ordering the marriage licence from James' first wife Mary in Ireland in the hopes that it may give a new tidbit of information... any other ideas???