Thank you Garstonite and Carole W for the replies which I have been slow to reply to as Roots was down.
I have Jane Parry b in Shrewsbury on '61 census when she was a widow and the children b Walsall. but '51 says, as for all the rest of the family' b Bilston and '41 says born in county for all, which I take as the numerator going ditto ditto--I have seen that many times.. The children are John 1836, Sarah '42 Henry '44 Richard '51 and Selina '57. None of them obviously from the Miles, Patten side. and the only possible for husband Richard's birth is to a John and Mary. They are back on my limit of knowledge. I can't see her any later than '61 but have found 4 inconclusive deaths in Walsall 1864-66
On the print out of the parish register I have she is given as a spinster.