Hi shebalee
* Is it Alfred DURHAM, the son of William George DURHAM (s/o William James and Margaret nee JACKSON) that you are looking for ) ? [Seem to recall Wm. George from your other DURHAM search. ]

If so, then Alfred John DURHAM d. 1928 at Waihi, is the correct man.
There was only one appearance, in 1871, of Alfred (John) on the UK census returns (with his parents and elder brother) and unfortunately the index had the children named as "W Lo" (son aged 6) and "Aliz Fo" (son aged 5).

[I read the actual image as children "Wm. F. - age 6 - b. Islington, Middlesex" - (and there's a baptism record, London, showing he was "William Frederick DURHAM") ... and "Alfd. J?o" -(probably "Jno" the abbreviation for the name "John") - aged 5 - b. Peterboro', St. Marks. ]
Transcript of census 1871 > next post :
~ Lu