Well, drat!!. I'm up against another brick wall. I pursued the Kilkenny road because of an article written in a Copenhagen, New York publication that declared Kilkenny as the Irish origin of Hanora (Moore) O'Neil. I found in Griffith's a listing of a couple of Michael O'Neil's of the correct age and for the correct time period in Tullaroan Kilkenny. I assumed one of them would have been our ancestor.
I have been in contact with a current resident of Lisnalea, Tullaroan,60 Kilkenny, Ireland who is living in the town I thought our Michael came from. This gentleman John O'Neill has been gracious and very helpful. He polled family resources as well as met with his parish priest and together reviewed old parish records. Alas, he reports to me in a letter postmarked Nov. 1st, 05 that they were unable to verify my suspicions. It seems " his" Michael and "ours" were different people.
Correspondence with the good people in Ottawa where our O'Neil's resided prior to coming to Lewis County N.Y. indicates County Cork, County Wicklow, and County Tipperary as the origin of other O'Neil's who lived in Bytown (ottawa) at the same time as ours, and who appear to be related.
I guess that will be the next direction of search. I am not sure where to begin, as their information seems to be based on legend, as was mine. Any help will be surely appreciated. At least the current John O'Neill and a Fr. Guilfoyle of Tullaroan let me know were NOT to look. For that help I am grateful.