I have requested a copy of a death certificate so hopefully they'll shed some more light on the matter.
I would thjnk it unlikely that his mother shared the same name as his wife?? Not impossible but I just dont get the feeling that this isnt mine. He would have been nearer 40 on the 1851 census too
Again, the children could have been Thomas' but he would have had to have been 15 when he fathered Richard, and 16 when he fathered Sarah, so again, i feel its more likely they were Hannahs
I just have a feeling he died young. I hope not, but i suspect he may have done