Thank you, thank you! This is so exciting! I would never have thought of "Retired".
Thanks so much for the info about The Bedford. The timing is absolutely fine - it was John Houston's son who was being married in 1864. It was his third marriage and he was 70.
John Houston is the one I am really looking for information on. I only have his name from his son's BMDs. I have no idea where John came from or where he ended up, so any information at all can potentially help.
Thanks very much everybody.
Karen