Couldnt agree more Blue but this site -Walton Park- is in a unique situation and has seemingly been the end of the road for so many,both physically and metaphorically !
It is my 'brick wall' ?
Reference back to the earlier posting by 'kevi' has been quoted so many times to all of those who are recent and new enquirers (as it was to myself some time ago) and gives false hope that there is a possible answer. There isn't,and it is very disappointing if not frustrating.
Phone enquiries to the farm these days will in my experience only illicit the response that "St Nicholas Church in Liverpool now deals with such enquiries" and,again,my personal experience has been total zero from St Nicks archivist.
'Kevi' was made redundant from the farm over 18 months ago and can no longer be of any help,his suggested facebook page has also disappeared by the looks of it.
As you say,we just have to accept that they are in there 'somewhere' ?
Or to paraphrase General Plummer,1927, at the Menin Gate,"They are not missing, they are here" !