Thank you for your interest in our problem and taking the trouble to reply. We do have problems because we don't know a birth date and place (Joseph's brother was born Rochford,Essex 1833) and because of his life being lost at sea with no body recovered we have no death date.
We have tried many places like Lloyds Register,Lambeth Archives,Docklands etc.but still cannot find the name of the barge or the place of the sinking.We were just hoping that someone would have just that bit of knowledge of the 1860s barge industry that would point us to something we hadn't thought of.
Gwenart