Sandra
Why not JUST say "thank you" to Annette, and not look for the last word?
It's not the fault of Annette that info, and reviewing that info, needed correcting.
It's not the fault of Annette that you find it hard to receive advice, what you call a "slap on the wrist".
Thanks to the free effort provided by Annette, your family tree is more correct than when you initially asked for help.
Ray