Hello Chris,
I am just checking the boards after being away from home for several weeks visiting my family. What a very kind offer! I can see that you are going to be very busy already, so this is only if you have enough time, ok?
My lookup is from the Mayfield parish registers.
Thomas Kemp, son of William and Frances Kemp, was baptised on 3 March 1834 along with his three of his younger sisters, Ruth, Hannah and Elizabeth. It was the same day as Elizabeth's marriage to Richard Habens.
Another cousin researching the same family told me that the baptism record also gave the birthdates of the four children. Thomas' date of birth being 16 Sept 1833. I thought at the time that he must have been a heck of a shock for his parents as they would both have been 58 at the time, 15 years after the birth of their last child!
What puzzles me is that in William Kemp's will of 1838, he appears to name his children in order of age. Thomas is named as his second son, between William b.1804 and Richard b.1818. Please could you check the baptism record and see if it does indeed give the birthdate of Thomas as 1833? Perhaps my cousin misread the date.
Also, on the Sussex Marriage Index I found a marriage of a Thomas Kemp to Elizabeth Blackman in Mayfield on 26 August 1835. I am thinking that if the birthdate for Thomas I've been given is wrong, then this could well be my Thomas. Could you also check for witnesses of this marriage if you have time please? They may just ring a few bells...
Many thanks,
Chris :