They still had workhouses in 1903

Anyway.... How do you know he left her about 1903, could it have been earlier? Also how many children, their ages, birth year, christian name, did Mary remarry at anytime? So sorry about all the questions but we need to get a better handle on what went on

When you say on other threads about ruling out people by that name, how did you go about that? Reason I say this is people change, marriages fall apart, sometimes no ones fault, but one walks off never to see the kids again or do they

Sometimes we THINK we know what happened then blow us down it wasn't that at all, just looked that way.
If you could fill some gaps I believe I have a couple of possibles. MAYBE

Neil