Hi,
I can't help with any baptisms but,
In the Suffolk Burial Index (ex Suffolk FHS) there are these two burials;
7-4-1855 John Calver age 58 buried in Ipswich St.Margaret
2-4-1884 Lydia Calver age 73 wd died 29-3, Bond Street. buried Ipswich Cemetery
There are many "John Calvers" but the one above seems to agree with the details you listed.
Similarly, there are a few Lydia Calvers but this one appears to match also.
Alan
Cheers Alan! I had Lydia's burial, but you gave me her death, so thanks! It is definitely her as she was living on Bond St in various census.
You give the source as "Suffolk Burial Index" - is this on CD? I have a world subscription to FindMyPast and it has some Suffolk Family History records, including Lydia's burial, but it did NOT have her death details you gave me.
Could you do another burial lookup for me? Patrick Lean WILKINSON; died 3 Jun 1963, Ipswich. Does it list where he was buried?
Thanks!