Thank you for this Dawn (and other management involved), it is appreciated.
Now that I am updated to the whereabouts of what happened here...
back on topic

I spoke at length with Ernest, his daughter and his Granddaughter over the post week and sent him some photos at various ages of Gordon (the one believed to be his father). In exchange, he sent me a few pictures of himself, but whilst I can't see the same striking resemblance I hold between Gordon, my father, myself and my own son, I'm not ruling it out yet. Having different mothers could account for s lot in this instance, and whilst there are some visual similarities (same ears, mouth and eyes), the verdict is still out. What is good though, is that both my father and Ernest are keen to have a DNA test to prove any blood line.
Are we allowed to post photos of living people on here? I can upload some pictures of Gordon, my family (dad and myself), as well as Ernest. You could have a look yourself and see what you make of the similarities?
I am currently awaiting confirmation as to the possibility of Ernest or anyone else in his family either recognising my photos of Gordon, or then having wedding photos of Gordon and Phyllis.