My one rellies in particular I now think that she may have been adopted. I have looked for her birth under the name that is on her marriage certificate and also under the name my mam had given me but nothing. I have all sorts of information about her except her birth...She was born in 1868 but even the GRO has nothing for her.....Rumor has it that she was born in Manchester England so I tried the English sites...Nada.....So I have come to the conclusion that she was adopted. I don't know anything about how the adopted in the 1860's. Anyone know if there were records kept or did rellies just give them their name and raise them?
I have looked everywhere for her on free sites and paid sites. I haven't given up I am just stuck.
Adoption didn't come into place in Ireland until much later in the 20th century. Earlier 'adoption' was mostly just an informal arrangement between family members, friends or neighbours to look after a child.
Registration of births started in 1864 but wasn't totally compulsary until 1870- that, combined with the newness of the process, meant many births were simply not registered. However, in this particular case the child could have been registered in a different area, without a first name being chosen, under a different name than the one you've checked or simply much earlier/later than you think.