Jacrista
This is the George Etherington living with the Darlings in Hutton Bushel in 1851, retired grocer? I haven't yet managed to track down any marriages - I've drawn a blank on Seamer or Hutton Bushel, covering the Aytons, and Leathley, where the Darlings were born.
But if George was born in Hive, he would probably have been baptised at Eastrington. Apologies if you've already seen this, but there are Etheringtons in Eastrington throughout the 18th century and a George, son of George, was baptised there on 20 Nov. 1772.
All the best
Joyce