Harry 1888 went on to marry Annie Hare in 1913 so it is not him.
My Harry, by process of elimination, has parents ;
Joseph (Joe) Rainbow
1864 – 1936
Matilda Crossley
1862 – 1936
You are correct that he and Sarah Jane had a daughter Vera.
I am now certain enough to splash the cash for certs and many thanks to you all.
As ever, you clear the wood so I can see the right tree.
Regards,
Josie.
p.s. The old saying wishing on a rainbow will give you a headache.