Hi LyndonRees,
The marriage you refer to took place in Abingdon St.Michaels church, and was for a Jane Tame, sp, aged 24, d/o John Tame, Maltster to a;
Robert Henry Martin aged 20, Labr, of Ock St, s/o Thomas Martin, Hawker.
Could it be that the Jane Tame born 1831 never married?
The only burial I can find is for a Jane Tame 23-1-1877 aged 52, Workhouse, Abingdon but this one is too old for the Jane your looking for.
Alan