Like you all I too have found, 1st wives dying young. Husbands remarrying quickly and my relative being the 2nd wife.
Some children were orphaned at a young age, living in Workhouses for short periods.
Mother's surnames being included as the middle name is also common - even with the girls.
My relatives seem to have trades as occupations, sometimes repeated from family to family member.
Have found a couple of curly variants with some family members.
One lady does not appear to have had her birth registered ...had various organisations for her region researching, with no success.
Was wondering how you access the birth, baptism details for a family member born in 1828 Farnsfield.... don't know her parents names.
Have found this forum to be very useful with many handy prompts for tricky questions.
Cheers
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