No Dave Dee, you didn't hijack a topic started by me. If anyone required an apology it would be mrs.tenacious, the originator. I believe she raised the subject subsequent to problems encountered...
...Perhaps it would have been better to start a thread on your own subject, negating the need for anyone from the original to reply, unless you prompted them into action of course.
Then in that case, msr, my apologies to mrs.tenacious, and hope she's reading this. Thanks for pointing this out. I agree starting my own thread would have been a better choice. I'm fairly new to this forum lark in here, but should have taken the time to discover how to start a new thread. Again, thanks for pointing it out. I'm learnin'. 
Best wishes.
Dave.
Well, I only realised yesterday that this original topic of mine had resurfaced, and I confess it has taken me quite a while to skim through the posts of the past few days. It has certainly proved to be an emotive subject (and not a new one, either)!
Dave, I assure you no apology is needed.
When I started this topic last year I'd just had some more photos copied, but the problems I'd had began a few years previously when I was still really new to family history research and rather green about the gills. At the time I didn't have a specific FH software program & was pleased to form my private tree on Ancestry for my own recording and to share with my family. I am not embarrassed to admit that I felt quite 'precious' and possessive about a few photos of close family members no longer with us, and when a second cousin I had sent some photos to inadvertently added them to her public tree it gave others the opportunity to 'pilfer' them without even asking permission. I think that rankled me as much as anything, because some of those people had rather tenuous links to my tree. At the time of first posting, I didn't understand how this had happened.
However, I am older and wiser now. I have learnt to relax a little and enjoy the benefits of sharing information and photos (I am eternally grateful for all the help I have been given on my research including Rootschatters of course!) - I still keep my tree on private setting, and if someone contacts me I can usually suss out if they are nothing more than number-gatherers. I always request that any photos I share not be put onto a public tree and have had no arguments about this. Of course it works both ways - if I make contact with someone and ask for a copy of photos I always confirm I will add them only to my FH program, not to my Ancestry tree even though it is private. I found a way to make it work for me, by lightening up a little and accepting that sometimes you find some people in life who don't always share the same manners or ethics as you do - and there ain't nothing you can do about it!
There is no black and white, right or wrong to this subject. We all have differing feelings and opinions. Thankfully we live in a country where we have the right to freedom of speech - lots of the content of these posts have been interesting and thought-provoking even if I haven't always totally agreed with everything said.
But I certainly didn't expect it to run to 19 pages when I started it

Happy hunting everyone - let's just enjoy this fascinating hobby without getting too wound up about it (says an older and more mellow Mrs. Tenacious)

Mrs. T x
Just modified my reply slightly as 3rd para needed clarification!