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www.raf.mod.ukquote
If you are the immediate Next of Kin or are able to provide the consent of the immediate Next of Kin you
should make your application on the Application Form Part 1 for Next of Kin or Enquirers with the Consent of
Next of Kin. A link can be found on the Service Records Information page.
Note that if you are not the immediate Next of Kin or do not have the consent of
the Next of Kin* then for a period of 25 years following the date of death the only
information that will be disclosed to you is surname; forename; rank; service
number; regiment/corps; place of birth; age; date of birth; date of death
where this occurred in service; the date an individual joined the service,
the date of leaving and any orders of chivalry and gallantry medals
(decorations of valour) awarded, some of which may already have been
announced in the London Gazette.
After this period the following information will also be disclosed, the units in which
he/she served, the dates of this service and the locations of those units;
the ranks in which the service was carried out and details of WWII '
as far as i am aware these records are confidential as ive been trying to get hold of my fathers but i did ask them as they said i could get them as he died but i have to provide evidence to support my being his next of kin - they dont just give the records out to anyone who asks as they could be giving personal info out on live people or people who just died