Dolly,
Nose to the grindstone again with those WHETSTONE's!
Still in the Sutton registers, found a marriage between Jane WHETSTONE, of full age, spinster, father William to William ABLETT, full age, widower b.o.t.p. By banns.
Looks like your ancestor Robert WHETSONE's sister tying the knot, followed by baptisms for their children in 1854, 1856, 1857, 1858, 1859, and 1860 (2). Probably a few related burials too, but I imagined you might have these later WHETSONE entries, anyway.
The earliest WHETSTONE entries in this Sutton register (1558-1812) were:
Marriage: 14-08-1706: Arthur WHETSTONE to Margaret GRAY
Baptism: 08-02-1707: William WHETSTONE, son of Arthur
Burial: 06-10-1710: Margaret WHETSTONE, wife of Arthur
After this sad note, I moved onto the Wentworth register, the earliest baptism being in 1766; the earliest marriage in 1782; and the earliest burial in 1768. There were dozens of WHETSTONE entries...
But did pick out possibly a significant marriage in Wentworth:
05-03-1816: William WHETSTONE to Elizabeth SANDIVER, b.o.t.p.
I began to search for a possible earlier generation of WHETSTONE's that might throw up your ancestor William. I thought I was on the right track with these, until I matched up burials. I might as well give them to you - don't despair, there's a rainbow at the end of all this searching!
Baptisms: 09-02-1766: William, son of Thomas and Mary WHETSTONE. (William WHETSTONE buried 31-01-1770)
24-07-1768: Mary, daughter of ditto (Mary WHETSTONE buried 23-10-1768)
21-08-1769: John, s. of ditto
03-11-1771: Mary, d. of ditto
24-04-1774: William, s. of ditto (William WHETSTONE buried 24-01-1781)
17-08-1777: Archer, s. of ditto (Archer WHETSTONE buried 29-01-1781)
25-12-1779: Sarah, d. of ditto (Sarah WHETSTONE buried 09-02-1781)
14-04-1782: Sarah, d. of ditto (Sarah WHETSTONE buried 26-09-1783)
A very sad story for this family, especially in the year 1781...
From 1789 through to 1805 there were also 5 WHETSTONE children born to a John and Sarah. I found a marriage between John WHETSTONE and Sarah BARBER, b.o.t.p. (Wentworth, still!), and these are the baptisms:
07-07-1789: Alice, d. of John and Sarah
29-11-1801: Robert, s. of ditto (must have died, didn't have time to check)
24-10-1802: Robert, s. of ditto
29-05-1805: James, s. of ditto
04-10-1807: Jonah, s. of ditto
(Also a baptism: 30-10-1794: Mary BROWN, d. of John BROWN and Mary WHETSTONE)
So then I decided to widen the search a little to neighbourimg parishes, including Ely St Mary's, Ely Holy Trinity, Haddenham, Witcham, and finally Witchford, and I think things may just as a result fit together.
But after the commercial break, like all good reality TV shows, I'll PM you...
Keith