Thanks for the link! It appears the my great grandmother Maren Melo was a widow for a while and that my grandfather Isak Melo was two or younger when his father died (from the link above I assume the father was Johan Nils Isaksen Melo).
I am trying to find some more info on my great grandfather (Johan Nils) but it is hard.
Does anybody know the origin of Melo or Meloe? It seems that most of the names end in sen etc but mine ends in o or oe depending. My father told me it was from an island in Norway.
But I am trying to trace the Melo name back and it is hard when my great grandfather has a name of Isaksen Melo. Was Isaksen also his last name???
You all have been so helpful!!

Thank you!!
Erica