Carol,
Your grandmother was a beautiful person. The picture is so lovely. She looks to be a kindly, intelligent lady.
That poem speaks volumes. She has summed up her early life with the end warning. How clever and astute of her.
I am sure we all understand your need to get things right and validated prior to sharing whatever you find with your family. By the time you do share information it, hopefully, won't be so raw for you (I can appreciate it must be for you right now). As you say, it is at the very core of you. It will bring up all sorts of emotions. Perfectly normal for you to just want your mum, bless her.
It will be a wonderful thing when you can share your knowledge with them; there will be questions fired at you from all angles!!
People here are so helpful. Will fall over themselves to help anyone. They are magical.
I reiterate what others have said, we are all "here" for you. Even if you want to shout and scream in capital frustration letters - let it out.
We remain your friends. Bless you Carol. Just imagine - if there is an afterlife - your mum and gran will be looking down laughing.
Fondest regards
Susan
As an afterthought - Going back to the court case. I wonder who the male witness was. It seems all witnesses/contributors were named. Just after Mrs Sheriff, the 78 year old lady who walked all the way... Then the prisoner says "Who's going to give me away" It goes on to refer to a witness as "he". Shame he was not named.
I also wonder about the suggestion someone made about contacting the original Solicitor. They may have something in their archives. One of us could do that for you if it would make it easier.
Take care for now.
