aaaaaaagh! I have the details from a birth cert that the husband had died 19 May 1883, but I cant find his death on SP (have tried about 7 possibilities) nor England, nor Ireland (though not sure I'm looking in all the right places there?)
James Robison (although sometimes recorded as Robinson / Robertson) last known in Blantyre and married to Isabella Tolan(d) with 9 children. Aged about 41 and born nr Larne, Co Antrim and married there in Oct 1864 (or Oct 1863) before moving to Maryhill, Glasgow (1871) and then onto Blantyre and the mining industry.
really stumped!

Thanks for any help / pointers.
PS missed Monica at Olympia, but spoke to some other Mods to say how great the website is

Joe