Hi Nellie
I too had trouble finding Ethlinda!
I too think they never married. Why? Maybe Ethlinda was still married to Benjamin. Divorce was very expensive in those times and for working class people with little money ....
I know Alfred was in a workhouse eventually, suffering from what we know today as dementia.
Ethlinda died 7th March 1937 at 5 Brunswick Square, Camberwell. Her home address was 182 Westmorland Rd Southwark. Cause of death was "chronic bronchitis".
The death was registered by a J Tozer, grandson, who was actually Alfred's grandson [by his daughter].
Ethlinda's mother Martha was my great grandmother's sister Harriet. Are you related in anyway to Ethlinda?
Well I hope this solves a little bit more of the puzzle.
Kindest regards
Eudora