Hi Karen,
            Sorry for not responding to your message, I have only found it today.
            Never seen a notification of the message.   So glad to hear from you.
            Hope you and your family members are doing well. 
            Lovely to read your mum was 99.
            The reason I was asking about your dad, was your grandmother.
             Mary Jane,  was she nee Parsons ?   Was searching for so long about.
             Wilfred was a cousin to my dad Archie Ballance, his sister was Madge.
             I think the last time I saw your father was at her funeral.
             Hope to hear from you soon. Best regards,     Billy.