I can only trace 4 Apthorp's buried in the Port Alfred East Bank cemetery.Albany.
Kendal Pretyman, 6/1/1911-2/6/1925, grave I003
Kendal Pretyman, 9/5/1861-10/8/1949, grave I001
Kitty Coster, 9/3/1906-10/8/1954, grave I004
Louisa (Elsie) Clyton Cockburn, 23/4/1871-23/4/1934, grave I002