Many thanks to all contributing to this thread, it has filled several spaces in my PAF file.
I never knew Nellie was short for Helen, but my sister Helen reluctantly confirms it!
The cemetery records are great and mostly confirm my aunt Daisy's notes, though the dates are off by a couple of days.
Some inconsistencies I need to look at though:
The children of Robert Thompson and Mary J Kerr.
The Cemetery has Christina - died at 7 weeks. Aunt Daisy has the name as Christiasian, an odd name for sure but Daisy was quite a meticulous person. If it was indeed Christina that clashes with the Christina who married Arthur Kerr.
Of the three Roberts, who is Mary Jane's husband? - because i have him as born 1855 and died 4th March 1895.
My head is spinning!!