OK I am back from work

and have read the last 3 pages.
No responses to the 2 emails I sent out - but I have found a second email for Melinda, so I will resend the email to the second email addy.
In the meantime below is what Melinda posted at Rootsweb on the Barbados board. I'm thinking we might have several connections here.
what do you guys think??

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I am at a standstill in each of these lines. I am hoping that someone else may have further information, if you do, please let me know. Thank you!
BETTENY, Henry (daughter was Grace Betteny, m. John Wilkinson before 1677)
m. Margrett (surname unknown)
d. 1677
CHRISTEE, Robert (parents MIGHT have been Samuel Christy and Mary Clarke)
b. abt. 1730
m. Elvira Ann Cox, 28 May 1754, St. Joseph, Barbados
CLARKE, Isabella
b. abt 1700 (maybe in St. Philip, Barbados, but not sure)
m. Charles St. John (or Saintjohn), 12 Oct 1721, St. Philip, Barbados
COX, Elvira Ann
b. abt. 1735
m. Robert Christee, 28 May 1754, St. Joseph, Barbados
DESPRAY, Jahann
m. James Sedgwick King, abt. 1765, St. Michael, Barbados
HOLLINSHED, Edward (possibley the son of Edward Hollingshead, b. abt. 1601, and Mary)
b. abt. 1640
m. Mary Son___, 22 Feb 1664/5, St. John, Barbados
KING, James Sedgwick
b. abt 1740
m. Jahann Despray, abt 1765, St. Michael, Barbados
LIGHT, Richard
b. abt 1601
m. Dorothy
d. 1679, St. Philip, Barbados
PINKETT, Mary E.
b. abt. 1685
m. (Joseph?) Wilkinson, 30 Nov 1704, St. Philip, Barbados
ST. JOHN (or SAINTJOHN), Charles
b. abt. 1700
m. Isabella Clarke, 12 Oct 1721, St. Philip, Barbados
WILKINSON , John (parents may have been John, d. 1652 in Barbados, and Elizabeth)
b. chr. 13 Nov 1645, Christ Church, Barbados
m. Grace Betteny, before 1677
http://boards.ancestry.com/mbexec/message/rw/localities.caribbean.barbados.general/596