:)Thankyou all very much for replying and your welcome! Gary did have to sisters i wont mention their names, this Gary does sound like the one i knew which daisypetal has suggested the right sort of age and now the spelling of the last name seems to ring a bell i do know a few more details but i not sure if or should divulge on here out of respect:
Death
Gary Antony TAWSE Jan 1986 Gloucester 22 2312
DOB: 13 Jun 1962
Age at Death: 23
I have been informed he was definatley buried at legh cemetry, i am pretty sure i know how he passed away, i feel a step closer to locating him it would mean a great deal to visit him, does any one know if there is a plot plan available of leigh cemetry?