Hi Sandra,
Fishman can probaly tell you more about Annie ORR after her marriage to Charles William BAXTER (alias Isaac BISP) in 1872. It is evident that her relationship with Thomas Burnet HAYWARD ceased soon after they were married. It is also obvious that Thomas must have left the area then because bigamy was illegal and Annie probably would not remarry unless she did not know where he was and reasonably presumed him to be deceased.
I just found something but will check the data.
One of Captain Thomas Burnet [not with double t] Hayward in this document, had a ship call Celtric King and it is connected with the shipping agencies Thomas Hayward had in Geraldton and Bunbury too.Records show he sailed from UK - London arriving in Freemantle on the 30th Oct, 1897.
It is important that you don't go chasing every person named Thomas HAYWARD or Captain HAYWARD - it is not an uncommon name and it is usually hard enough to sort your own family out without chasing other people who are not related. The Captain HAYWARD of the
Celtic King was
Captain B. G HAYWARD, not your chap.
Annie Orr possibility died in 1938 [that has to be check with the births, death & marriages office here].
It is not impossible, but highly unlikely that Annie's surname at death was ORR. Once a woman married or had a relationship with a man they usually kept the married surname until death. The same goes for the electoral rolls. I will however concede that Scottish women often used their birth surname throughout their lives.
I have found this:
HAYWARD-On the 30th November at Melbourne, Elizabeth Mary beloved wife of Zebulon Thomas Hayward of 687 Rathdown street North Carlton, and loving mother of Derrick aged 53 vears - At rest.
There is a Mary Elizabeth Hayward and has her mother listed as Ann ? death 1968.
Now this Mary Hayward could be connect to the above posting.
The first person died in Victoria in 1938 aged 53, the second person died in WA in 1968 aged 71. Why would you think they are connected, and why are you looking for a person named Mary HAYWARD? I haven't seen anyone by that name come up in our discussion so far.
On the 1861 UK census, Thomas Burnet HAYWARD is still living at home with his widowed mother and various other extended family members in London. He is aged 18 and is a midshipman. My opinion is that this was in merchant shipping not the Royal Navy. If he had been in the Navy they would not have so much trouble finding out where he was. So you now know that he came to Australia between 1861 and 1865.
The previous census, taken in 1851, shows that his father Thomas was a wholesale grocer, aged 45, and born in Wiltshire.
If you are interested, Thomas Burnet HAYWARD's Masters/Mates certificate is available to view on Ancestry.
You will always find different spelling of surnames as it was not as important back then. Some people were illiterate and didn't know how to spell their own names.
Debra
