Both my brother & I were called by our middle names and we're a Lancashire family! My cousins also had to endure being called by their first names in official circumstances. The others were lucky - their first names were quite nice, but my first name is awful and has haunted me throughout my life. I've now trained my doctor's surgery to use my middle name and am busy training my dentist - why are they all so familiar these days? In hospital I had to train all the nurses, one of whom tried to explain it to another by saying, " Her name is H----, but she likes to be known as G-----", as though it was a name I had chosen myself.
My first name was that of my father's sister and my brother's was that of my mother's grandfather, so that probably explains it, but why, oh why couldn't my parents have put those names as middle names, I wonder?
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