Hi,
I know this post is from several years ago but I have the information you need.
The gentleman you are looking for went by his mother's surname Hughes. He is my husband's great great grandfather. He has 2 sons named Nelson (mother unknown) and Sidney Hughes (mother: Betsy/bessie Orchard)
His parents were Silas Bland and Sarah Hughes. We have managed to find a large proportion of the bland family but we are stuck on Sarah Hughes.
Let me know if you want any more information I have some censuses and war records.
Best wishes